Presentation on how to win friends & people

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  • 1. Presentation OnHOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCEPEOPLE Gaurav PatelMBA+PGDBM Taxila Business School, Jaipur

2. Fundamental Techniques in Handling People. Dont criticize, condemn or complain. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Arouse in the other person an eager want. 3. Six ways to make people like you Become genuinely interested in other people. Smile. Remember that a persons name is to that person the sweetest and mostimportant sound in any language. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. Talk in terms of the other persons interests. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely. 4. HOW TO CREATE INFLUENCE. Be a good listener -different from active listening -ask more questions-listen to complaints to ease tensions Talk in terms of the other persons interests.-find out about their interests -ask about their interests Make the other person feel important & appreciated -recognize tangible contributions Lead the way.. 5. How to win People in my Concern The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. Show respect for the other persons opinions. Never say, "Youre wrong." If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. Begin in a friendly way. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. 6. How to win People in my ConcernLet the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.Try honestly to see things from the other persons point of view.Be sympathetic with the other persons ideas and desires.Appeal to the nobler motives.Dramatize your ideas.Throw down a challenge 7. How to win People in my Concern Begin in a friendly way-start the conversation with sincere praise.-A pleasant tone of voice can make a big difference! Try to honestly see things from the other persons point of view. -Ask yourself, why would he/she want to do what I ask? -Where do our opinions on the topic differ? Get the other person to say yes, yes ASAP. -Environment saturated with info. -Emphasize what both parties agree on. -Momentum of the conversation . Appeal to nobler motives -People take actions -one or more. 8. Be a Leader: How to Change People Without GivingOffense or Arousing Resentment .. 1) A leaders job often includes changing your peoplesattitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this: Begin with praise and honest appreciation. Call attention to peoples mistakes indirectly. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person 9. A leaders job often includes changing your peoples attitudesand behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Let the other person save face. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "heartyin your approbation and lavish in your praise." Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest. 10. Thanking You